"Memories of the event came flooding back, my confidence crumbled, and I ran as far away as possible — to Antarctica."
After being raped by two different men, Elizabeth Endicott struggled to maintain her sense of self. |
Only 23, she did not think she was deserving of — let alone capable of finding — a romantic relationship based on tenderness and respect. |
She decided to move to Antarctica, the coldest, driest and windiest continent on Earth, to work as a janitor. |
In this week's Modern Love essay, "Kissing a Fellow Janitor Amid the Trash," Ms. Endicott describes how a community of earnest scientists and the second life of recycled refuse gave her the courage to begin again. |
| MODERN LOVE "The endless white invited existential dread, and again I remembered the events that drove me here. Nobody had loved me the way I'd needed, and nobody ever would." | | |
| MORE MODERN LOVE "I was pursuing women. But next semester, when I saw Steve, a decidedly male student in a turtleneck, my entire body shook with passionate interest." | | | |
| LOVE AND MARRIAGE "I started an elaborate questioning, 'Are you just doing this because I'm pregnant? When did you buy the ring?'" | | | | | | |
| SERVICE CONTENT "If monogamy does not suit you, tell your spouse. This dinner is a mere footnote compared with your dishonesty in your marriage." | | | |
| LOVE IN THE NEWS "The DeSantis team shared the video the same day that the Supreme Court ruled in favor of a Christian web designer who refused to create wedding websites for same-sex couples, putting the rights of L.G.B.T.Q. people on shaky legal footing." | | | | | | | | |
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